Thursday, November 8, 2012
Tuesday, November 6, 2012
Thursday, May 31, 2012
Tuesday, May 22, 2012
When I started college, I was just like any other normal student. My only real concerns were my classes and my part-time job; everything else I did was for fun. I learned a lot during my freshman year, though, and as I learned I began to focus on more productive things. Here’s a collection of college tips and bit of info that helped me out a lot.
- Always go to class. A lot of bloggers will debate this one, but I think it’s essential. You never know when the professor will drop a crucial test hint, or give out extra credit for attendance.
- If you have to choose between a double major and getting involved on campus, get involved. All the knowledge in the world won’t help you if you come out of college with no experience or professional relationships.
- ALWAYS back up your files. Dropbox makes this easy as can be.
- Make sure your computer is protected against malware. Install Microsoft Security Essentials or Avast Anti-virus, and use a web browser other than Internet Explorer. Installing the Adblock extension doesn’t hurt, either.
- Learn to do your taxes and your FAFSA yourself, instead of letting your parents do it. Knowing how to handle these things will prepare you for life after college.
- Get a bank account with a bank in town. It can be really inconvenient having to wait for Mom to send cash, and it teaches you to manage your own finances.
Get a credit card, and make all your month’s purchases on it up to 20% of the card’s balance. This will help to start building your credit. If you start spending more, or can’t pay the balance in full for even one month, tear the card up.
- Bring enough clothing to school with you that you can go two weeks between washings. This will save you money in the long run.
- Never leave your clothes in a washer after the cycle is over. Be there to take them out a minute before the cycle ends. Not doing this is rude, and people WILL pull your clothes out and set them somewhere.
- If you have new colored clothes, wash colors separately from whites the first few times you wear them. Otherwise, toss ‘em all in the same load if they’ll fit.
- Try not to drink too much caffeine. It’s really not good for you (it caused pretty bad acne for me), and you can get energy by staying well-hydrated, eating healthy foods, and sleeping enough.
- If you’re having issues with your roommate, talk about them. Don’t let them build up to the point where you can’t stand each other.
- Get a part-time job, preferably doing something that relates to your major. If you can, work in the early morning – you’d just be sleeping otherwise. I’ve found that having a job actually helped with my time management when I first started school.
- If you can’t find a part-time job that relates to your major, look for a “warm-body” job – one that allows you to do homework while working. Some examples would be working at the desk of the library or the athletic center.
- If your school offers a position that helps with summer orientation for incoming students, apply for it. This kind of job will build your confidence and communication skills like none other.
- Get to know your professors. College is just as much about networking as it is about sitting in class. Plus, most of them are bored out of their skulls during office hours.
- If you have younger siblings that come to visit, supervise their use of your microwave. Trust me on this one.
- Don’t bring a car to campus if you don’t need one. Many schools have great public transit systems, and Facebook can net you rides when you need them.
- If you are bringing your car to campus, buy the parking permit that puts your car closer to you, even if it’s a bit more expensive. It’ll save you a lot of time (and whining).
- Live in the campus residence halls your first year if you can. Residence halls are much, much more social than apartments, and you’ll be involved in a lot more cool things.
- Realize that you are an adult now; just because you don’t have to go to work for eight hours a day doesn’t mean you shouldn’t act like it. Be professional.
- When you study, don’t do it in your room. Also, try to use an active study method such as making flashcards or writing your own quizzes. It’s a lot less boring and a lot more effective than just looking over your professor’s slides.
- Getting a tutor does not make you look dumb. Not getting one when you need help does.
- Flip-flops in the bathroom. No exceptions.
- Freezy Pops from Wal-Mart are a great substitute for fattier desserts.
- Take smart notes. Use a laptop in content-heavy classes that don’t give you time to write things on paper. If you do use paper, use the Cornell Method. See more note-taking hacks here.
- Find out when you can register for classes and do right at that moment. You’ll thank yourself later when your friends are having to do an extra semester because they couldn’t get into a required class.
- Try out as many clubs as you can. Feel no obligation to them if you don’t like them. College is about finding out what you love to do.
- Don’t put your alarm clock anywhere you can reach it. Make yourself get out of bed to turn it off.
- If your roommate isn’t still sleeping, turn on the light immediately after waking up. Light helps you feel more awake and reduces the chances of you going back to bed.
Don’t get drunk, but don’t miss the show when your friends do
- You need a calendar. Google Calendar is probably the best one there is.
- Never underestimate the value of a care package from Mom.
- Get out and explore your campus. If you have to ask your friends where the main financial office is, you’ve failed. Same goes for exploring the city your campus is in.
- Find out what resources your school offers. Many universities have free tech support centers, health centers, seminars, and more.
- Get an internship the summer after your sophomore year. You’ll forge professional connections early on and make it easier to get another internship the next summer. Graduating with two under your belt will give you a real leg up on the competition.
- Keep a journal if you can. It’s great to be able to go back and see how you’ve progressed over the years.
- Connect with your school’s career center; your career advisor will be an invaluable resource in the years to come.
- Create a resume if you don’t already have one, and have it critiqued by someone who knows what they’re doing.
- Go to every career fair, even if you’ve already lined up a summer job. You want to build relationships with recruiters, and they’ll remember your face if you show up every time.
- Take a speech class, even if you don’t have to. Communication skills are among the more important things recruiters look for in students.
- Be confident, get out of your comfort zone, and try new things. College is the greatest opportunity you’ll ever have for personal development.
Thursday, April 19, 2012
Tuesday, March 27, 2012
Thursday, March 8, 2012
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
Okay, I’m back. A lot has happened since my last post. I completed my first semester of doctoral studies, welcomed two children to my family (twins), and semi-started a new role at work. There was a time that I thought none of this would have been possible, but now it’s all happening…. at the same time.
These past few months have taught me a great lesson in time management and fighting through the urge to throw up my hands and quit. There have been numerous times when a huge paper was due and the twins decided sleep was for the birds.
I am a serious planner and before I start a project I usually have everything mapped out, sometimes on paper but at the very least in my head. These days I am faced with challenges to my plans more times than not. What do you do when your plans fall through? What would it look like if every time you faced a challenge you walked away? Life gives us challenges, but the experience of roadblocks molds us into who we are.
Planning is good, but you must be prepared to hit some challenges along the way.